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7.15.2009

Addressing The Butterfly


A man found a cocoon of a butterfly. He sat and watched the butterfly for several hours as it struggled to force its body through the little hole at the end.

Eventually, the butterfly stopped making progress. It appeared as if it had gotten as far as it could and it could go no farther.

The man decided to help the butterfly, so he took a pair of scissors and snipped off the remaining bit of the cocoon. The butterfly then emerged easily, but it had a swollen body and small, shriveled wings.

The man continued to watch the butterfly because he expected that at any moment, the wings would enlarge and expand to be able to support the body, which would contract in time.

Neither happened. In fact, the butterfly spent the rest of its life crawling around with a swollen body and shriveled wings. It never was able to fly.

What the man in his kindness and haste did not understand was that the restricting cocoon and the struggle required for the butterfly to get through the tiny opening is nature's blessing.

It is a way of forcing fluid from the body of the butterfly into its wings so that it would be ready for flight once it achieved its freedom from the cocoon.


Sometimes what appears to be a struggle is nature's blessing. If nature allowed us to go through our life without any obstacles, it would cripple us. We would not be as strong as what we could have been. And we would never fly.

Butterflies earn their wings. Struggling is a part of the journey but it is not forever. For each struggle gives our wings flight.

May whatever you are going through today help you spread your wings and gain the strength and altitude you need to leave the cocoon.

18 comments:

UBERMOUTH 7/15/2009 4:56 PM  

Timely and beautiful post, Alexys. I think you can imagine why.

Isn't that a beautiful dress too?

Miruh 7/15/2009 5:28 PM  

Hello Alexys,

Awesome image!

This story is a lovely reminder that we must honor what nature intends. I wonder about parents who teach their kids cognitive skills from a really young age, if emotional development is being hampered in the process.

Thanks for a thought provoking post!

Alexys Fairfield 7/16/2009 1:03 AM  

Hi Grace,

You know that word is spelled the same way backwards and forward. ;D

Alexys Fairfield 7/16/2009 1:05 AM  

Hi Uber,

Timing is everything.

It IS a nice dress isn't it?

Sending you peace.

Alexys Fairfield 7/16/2009 1:07 AM  

Hi Miruh,

Yes, that image is striking isn't it? You bring up an excellent point about parents teaching their children cognitive skills early.

Everything in it's own time.

Liara Covert 7/16/2009 9:22 AM  

Every human being is a symbolic butterfly. Not everyone is aware that he seeks to escape from something. The goal is to return to tha mental place where one experiences unwavering, unconditional love and self-acceptance. That begins and ends within.

Alexys Fairfield 7/16/2009 11:36 AM  

Hi Liara,

Does that mean when a person has butterflies in their stomach that they are not aware of their ability to fly? ;D

anne partain 7/16/2009 12:10 PM  

Thank you Alexys, what a great story. As a Mom, it helps me find valuable perspective about my children. Thanks again.

Alexys Fairfield 7/16/2009 3:03 PM  

Hi Anne,

That's true. How many times do we just want to do it for our children - especially homework. ;D

The hardest part is stepping back and letting go. Thanks for your perspective.

Michelle 7/16/2009 4:27 PM  

What a fabulous blog. I am so glad I found you. I feel what you are saying very much. If you would please drop in to my blog. I am not trying to sell my blog, just interested in what you might think.

Mark 7/17/2009 7:34 AM  

Excellent parable. Yes, often our "good intentions" are shortsighted. Thank-you for sharing this.

Alexys Fairfield 7/17/2009 9:51 AM  

Hi Michelle,

Thank you for your kind words. Glad you like it. Hope to hear from you again soon.

Peace.

Alexys Fairfield 7/17/2009 9:53 AM  

Hi Mark,

Nothing like timeless wisdom. It never gets tired. :D

Melissa,  12/15/2009 2:40 AM  

oh my goooooood, I'm so absolutely in love with this dress!!! SO MUCH! iwantitiwantitiwantit!! Where is it from? is there any possibility to buy it?? pleeeease someone tell me!! thanks!:)

Alexys Fairfield 12/15/2009 8:51 AM  

Hi Melissa,

It is an old photo. The dress is probably gone by now. Maybe you can have one made?

Blessings.

Anonymous,  1/25/2010 10:24 PM  

That dress is from Luly Yang's Downtown Seattle. I know the wonderful ladies who worked on that dress. It is really a work or art.

Alexys Fairfield 1/26/2010 11:22 AM  

Hi Anonymous,

Thanks for that information. It IS a fabulous dress.

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