Showing posts with label Donald Trump. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Donald Trump. Show all posts

5.05.2008

Are You Wealthy?



Nature is a professor. A sage. A mystic. A prognosticator. A reflector of man. It’s fury gets our attention, bends and breaks faith, but in the end nature doesn’t really change. It’s a catalyst.

Man also has a nature that bends and breaks faith. A nature that by default is faulty, but still redeemable. A nature that is forever facing the tides that pull us under the current. A nature forever questioning position and repositioning ourselves to fit a society of superficiality, wealth, status and debasement when all we need to do is to value our own worth and character.

I am not saying that affluence is the root of all evil or that it doesn’t have its own rewards, which of course it does. Without affluence and philanthropy many charities would be out of business. Even the government gives us an incentive to be philanthropic by way of tax deductions.

Outer wealth is measured by numbers, a googol that is bandied about like status Ticker Tape. We have become quite familiar with three household names over the years that are mentioned so much that we think they are a part of our family.

Whenever the names, Warren Buffet, Bill Gates, or Oprah are so much as uttered, the phrase that automatically comes to our mind is, “They are rich.” In reality, we don’t know how wealthy they really are. We just think because they have money, they have everything, but they don’t. It behooves us not to keep measuring our worth against theirs.

Not only does it make us feel inadequate, envious, and literally worthless, but it’s counter productive to our own goals.

When Tony Robbins can charge $8,000 a head for a seminar to motivate us, then something is wrong with our sense of purpose. When Donald Trump or Robert Kiyosaki can get millions for speaking to us and telling us how they did it, it is nothing more than their individual experiences that were meant for them solely.

What they all neglect to tell us is that there is no formula, no magic, bullet, no genie in a lamp, nothing other than they were all fortunate to be aligned with their destiny. They seized their particular circumstances, unique only to them and within their karmic grasp.

To think that you can replicate their success is a misconception. When Donald Trump bought The Empire State building for one million dollars, no one else wanted it. It was in bad condition from years of neglect. He immediately had an opportunity to rehab it and bring it back to its former glory which added tremendously to his outer wealth. Many motivational speakers have similar stories.

The irony is that when a wealthy person falls, no one wants to know them anymore. When an elephant falls, even the frogs kick him.

So how do we build our own wealth? The true wealth of our spirit, heart and Soul is simply constructed by apprizing, not monetizing ourselves. We must invest in our dreams, our animus, our reason for being. We have to motivate ourselves to be active thinkers, believers and forerunners. Make getting up in the morning a breakfast of champions.

With the smallest of efforts, we can at least begin to tip the scale
of depth and perception and not be confetti that falls into a barren landscape of numbness. Why traverse through life with a soulless existence?

I have faith in man and its nature. It is a nature that in its most defiled consequences, cleans up well. A nature that governs our consciousness. A nature that although bends and cracks along the surface, does not really break altogether. It only looks that way on the outside.

Man is resilient and forever growing. If we don’t change, we don’t grow. If we don’t grow, we die. Not just physically, but mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

We have to embrace all that we are and embrace all that we live. Find value in everyday living. Tap the inner life waiting to spring forth. When we start to dig, we will soon hit a gusher that will splash us with wisdom, the fountain of truth and the secret to happiness.

We must disabuse the definition of what society calls wealthy and embrace real wealth. It’s in valuing ourselves that we reach our true wealth. And a wealthy Soul is priceless.

3.07.2006

The Apprentice: Mean WIth Envy


There seems to be a mean spiritedness as evidenced in last night's, 'The Apprentice,' that is rampant in society. Why is this need to put other people down so high on our priority list? Is it because we feel so inadequate that we have to put others down to elevate our own self-esteem?

For those of you who don't know, The Apprentice is one of the most overblown "reality" shows you could ever watch. Contestants (mice) fight to get a piece of the corporate cheese; working for self-aggrandizing, real estate mogul, Donald Trump.


Like any "scripted" reality show, it supposedly has all the elements of good and evil, except I find it almost impossible to decipher the good in seeing people perform like circus sea lions tossing beach balls for herring.
A sure sign of them becoming boot-licking toadies.

My unbridled idealism tells me that there must be good somewhere right? Maybe it's buried deep in Trump's heart, right under the stacks of million dollar bills. It's takes every ounce of the contestants training, or lack thereof to figure out how to get the attention of the king (that would be Trump).

What seems to elude them the most is trust, common sense and team spirit.
Every contestant has to pretend to like his teammate to find his teammate's Achilles heel and then kick like Hell until that contestant is fired.

After watching last night's episode, I was appalled at the egregious behavior of contestant, Stacy; an aggressive mini skirted blonde criminal public defender from New York.
Ugliness rears its head more on T.V. than anywhere else. What makes good T.V. doesn't make a good soul.

I know the show has been edited to seep in sensationalism, but nevertheless, it's still loathsome any way you slice it. Why do I watch it? For the character studies. I like to see what makes people tick even if it is sickening. I actually watch very little T.V., not the screen size, but the amount.


Anyway, The Apprentice hasn't been the same since Omorosa was voted one of the most hated Apprentices. (Google it)

Last night as the contestants began to dive into the task, Brent, a slightly overweight, bespectacled real estate and insurance attorney from Florida and social leper by the contestants standards, tried unsuccessfully to throw his ideas into the ring.

Each time, he tried, Stacy would cut him off and shut him down.
Peppi, the project manager didn't really intervene until pushed by Stacy to "do something," because she couldn't work with Brent, who did nothing more than try to have his voice heard. (What kind of name is Peppi for a grown man anyway?)

Gathering all of his strength, Brent confronted Stacy in the hallway. He simply asked her why she cut him off and wouldn't let him speak? She didn't know what to say to Brent's face, but suddenly she reported to Peppi that Brent "threatened her." What? Threatened? Who? When? Where? How? Wait a minute. What?

Stacy lied about Brent because he stood up for himself. And just like the sheep consciousness that would be any apprentice, they agreed with Stacy although none of them were present. Why didn't anyone think to ask Brent what happened instead of jumping to conclusions? I guess that wasn't in The Apprentice manual.

Brent's teammates secretly colluded to set Brent up for the proverbial ax where his head would roll down fifth avenue while everyone else kicked it too. Finally reason stepped in.


When Stacy was confronted in the boardroom about the "threat," she back pedaled through the murky water in whence she spoke. She called Brent a clown and admitted that he didn't threaten her, but she felt her safety was at stake. Again. What?

What did she think Brent was going to do, tickle her to death? Perhaps pull a multicolored scarf out of his mouth? Juggle? In the end Stacy and project manger Peppi properly got the ax.


What does reality T.V. really teach us? That we shouldn't speak up? That we should bite our tongues until we have a mouth full of blood? That everyone has to sacrifice dignity for the spotlight while ignobleness eagerly waits in the wings? The ego slowly expands under the heat of hot lights whereas our foibles are magnified to the point of blindness; our own blindness.


Are we so superficial that the notion of fame nibbles our moral decay? Yes. Why do we judge people who look different than we do? Do we feel threatened by them, like Stacy?

She lied about Brent because he was an outsider who looked different than she. He was, as she described, "a clown" who brought the team down. To some observers, Stacy was the devil in Prada and Brent just didn't fit into her beautiful world; the world of rapists, murderers, molesters, and other reprobates. Remember she is a criminal public defender for New York.

We don't have to like everyone we meet, but at least we can be civil to them. I think there should be a name switch. The Apprentice should be called The Lemmings.


Better yet, The Apprentice should trade names with The Biggest Loser. That way everyone wins. This one is for the underdogs. Keep your head up. Every dog has his day.

I can't believe I did a whole post on The Apprentice but someone had to do it. Blogging is so darn unpredictable.

6 comments:

Steve said...

Stacy was a real bitch for the way she treated Brent. She deserved to get her ass fired!

Ayios said...

Hello Alexys,

I agree with your comments on The Apprentice and Donald Trump. I have watched every season of the show and I am amazed at the stupid tasks that are set out for the contestants that have nothing to do with business. How Trump can pick anyone or even fire anyone is beyond me as they have not been given an opportunity to show any business acumen.

By and large the final apprentice is usually someone who has shown the least ability and is not someone I would ever have working for me. The last few apprentices, Kelly and Randall did not display anything other than weakness and the inability to make a decision, yet they won the competition. If Trump were that nice, his first apprentice Bill wouldn't be quitting.

Last season, Trump could have been a real man and allowed both Randall and Rebecca to go through as he wanted, but he asked Randall who said, "no." Why would a captain of industry allow someone who as yet does not work for him make that decision? Trump should have been a man and not hidden behind that stack of hair.

Trump comes across as shallow and clueless. It is apparent that he has built an empire by having a strong group of employees at the highest levels of his company. By himself, he would not be able to run a lemonade stand. The masses hail him as a god, but he is another false prophet.

I know quite a few people who have heard him speak at seminars. When it came to questions and answers he had no idea how to respond, instead he just picked out pretty women in the audience and made some very tasteless and chauvinistic comments. Trump is the one that needs to be fired!

Michelle said...

Hey did you hear what Trump said yeserday? "If Ivanka wasn't my daughter, I would date her." How creepy is that?

Jim said...

The show is close to being cancelled, then our misery will be over.

Ariel said...

Your boundless idealism pushes you to search for good in The Apprentice, but mine does not. I can't wait for the show to get the axe. :)

Alexys Fairfield said...

Steve,
I know.

Ayios,
Thanks for confriming what I already thought about Trump.

Michelle,
I heard that too.

Jim,
But then what will I have to write about?

Ariel,
From your lips to God's ears.

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